Eat Well to Defeat Heart Disease from laaradavis's blog

Defeat ED From Home If this fear of walking up to women is something that can be learned, surely it is also something that can be unlearned as well. Whether you want to become a pickup artist and date hundreds of women or you are just a guy in love with the girl across the cubicle, this fear can hold you back. Sometimes we think of the most creative reasons not to talk to a woman - she's too beautiful, she's not beautiful enough, she will probably hate me, she's probably married, she will pull out a gun and shoot me. The reality is that the fear exists only in your head. There is no real danger.


It's just like tigers. I am afraid of tigers. But I don't worry about them. I am only afraid of a tiger that is in the room. Until a tiger is in the room with me, my fears and worries are just academic. It is the same thing when you are worried about walking up to a woman. You are worried about things that aren't real. Logically you know that there is no real danger. No one is actually going to shoot you for saying hi.


So now that we know that this fear is something we have learned and that it is actually illogical, how do we defeat it. There are tons of complex psychological tricks and techniques out there, from EFT to hypnosis. I have tried all of them. And in my years as a professional pickup artist I have developed a technique that works the best for me - ritual.



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